FAQ for the first time visitor
Spending time with a girl
You can meet, talk with, Play bar games with the girls from
Thailand . If things develop and you wish to spend more personal
time with them, there are different things to note. If the
girl you meet was working in a beer bar or go go bar, remember
the name of the place she works, at least if there was a
problem you could go back and see the owner / manager the
next day, who can assist you. Freelancers do not belong to
any establishment; you can meet these girls in nightclubs
etc, as they are not working for any establishment there
is no way to track them if you do not get their I.D Card
registered at the hotel (See I.D Card). The other gender
to be noted are transsexuals/lady boys, to spot a lady boy
look for taller then most Thai girls, big hands, big feet,
adams apple, to much make up. If they qualify for any three
of these then it is more then likely to be a lady boy, don't
be frightened to ask if unsure and note in the nightclub
bar section which area's these ladies work in.
What can I expect with a bargirl / go go girl?
Fun, laughter and in almost all cases a very good time,
there are always tales of good and bad experiences, treat
people how you expect to be treated yourself and you will
not go far wrong. Girls that have just started working may
have very little sexual experience so request for specific
things may not go down very well. Even the girls that work
in the Go Go bar and perform on stage may be shy when they
get back to your hotel room. If you are at unsure ask many
questions before you get back to your Hotel, saves and misunderstandings
What is the bar fine? And how much is it?
The bar fine is the money the customer has to pay to the
beer bar or go go bar if wishing to take the girl out of
her place of employment before closing time.
Most beer bars charge 300 Baht but some charge 500baht.
Go Go bars charge from 400 to 600Baht, always ask first.
Should I try Freelancers?
Lots of freelancers just hang around in or outside the main
nightlife spots or you can find plenty in the nightclubs
near the end of the night. These girls prefer not to work
in the bars, and have the freedom to choose their own working
hours and places to spend their time. The possible disadvantages
for the customer is that you do not have the same level of
security as with girls working in the bar. If there is a
problem you have no method of recourse. The only advantage
of freelancer is that there is no bar fine to pay and most
of the prettiest girls freelance.
What is meant by short- time or long time?
Short-time is when you take the girl out
of the bar or go go with you for at most a couple of hours,
not to spend the whole night with you, you still pay the
bar fine every time.
Long-time means she will spend the whole
night with you. Bar fines in both instances are the same.
It is our recommendation you make sure the girl wants to
go long time with you beforehand to save any confusion later.
Some hotels do have the policy of keeping a record of the
girls I.D Card. This may seem like hassle but if there were
any problem, they would have a record of the girl's information.
It also does act as a deterrent to the girls and is your
only safeguard in the event that your girl was a freelancer.
Guests that try to avoid the I.D check for fear of embarrassment
will of course have no method of recourse.
Joiners Fee/ Guest Fee is a fee some hotels charge if you
take a girl (guest) back to your room for the night. The
fee can range from 500 – 3000 Baht for every occurance. The
best way to avoid this charge is to check if the hotel charges
before you book. Most hotels do not but if it's a family
hotel they will charge or may even not allow you to take
a girl back . (See our Girl Friendly hotel list Section)
What does it Cost to Ring the bell in the Bars.
Firstly let us explain that you will usually see a bell
hanging in most bars, do not ring this by accident, by doing
so it signifies you wish to buy everyone a shot in the bar,
and can be a costly mistake to make!!
There are different pricing used by bars for ringing the
1) Set Price for ringing the Bell in the Bar. Buys a shot
for everyone in bar
(Usually 1,000 Baht maximum) Printed on menus or displayed
2) Buy everyone a drink at bar - Pay for each shot or drink.
(1,000 – 4,000Baht)
3) Buy Staff or your group of your friend's drinks only.
Just make sure you know which one they use at the bar your about to ring the
A lot of bars have it clearly stated in their bar and on
the drinks menu, others do not.
Best Advice If not sure ask first or do not Ring the bell.
Keeping Valuables Safe.
If you have too much money, jewellery, passport, keep it
locked up in the hotel's safe. Losing a few thousand baht
is not a problem, but losing your expensive jewellery or
your passport could cause you a lot of hassle on your holiday.
Our motto ‘Only take out with you at night what you can afford
to lose' this is not a high crime rate area but with excess
alcohol and high spirits it is easy to loose personal belongings
or forget where you left them.
Taking girls out of her establishment for short
If you wish to take your favourite girl out of the place
she works on a short trip then you are still expected to
pay the bar fine for the amount of days she can't work.
If you do not then she is expected to pay instead on her